The other evening I desperately needed to go soak my weary and sore body in the hot tub at a local pool to deal with some pain. Furthermore I needed a little bit of time to myself before I came home to the family, so I asked my partner Jeremiah Poncek if he could hold down the fort and take care of everything at home. I asked him this question over text message and he answered back with, yup go to the pool and relax and have fun. Jeremiah and I have been together for over three years now and he is one of the most amazing people that I have ever met. His kindness and generosity are boundless and the sincerity of his compassion is truly endearing.
While I was at the pool I spoke to an older gentleman and during that conversation I told him about Jeremiah and about how much we both have in common with each other. Him and I are of the same mind about the way that we want to live and about the quality of love that we want to give to each other and our children. When I was younger and less experienced I didn’t realize how important it is to be with somebody who truly shares with you the same passion for the same goals in life. It is this shared passion over various interests that has allowed us to keep our passion for each other and our life together alive.
It is our future goal to build a home together out on a lovely piece of land and to work together on our dreams. Our mutual interests and our passion for them are the foundation of our life and family and and is extremely important to us. Without mutual interests a relationship is nothing more than a shallow puddle lacking substance and depth. After living in this type of relationship for many years I learned to never do it again. It was easy for me once I had a relationship of depth to never make the same mistake again or want to go back. My past relationship was like trying to survive on a starvation diet and now being with Jeremiah I have never gone hungry on any level either mental, emotional, spiritual or physical.
Jeremiah is a blessing to my life that I did not expect so late in the game and yet now that I am with him I cannot imagine being without him. Never allow yourself to stay in unhealthy relationships, because the truth is once you let them go you can begin to search for someone that truly feeds your soul and can connect with you at the deepest levels within your being. Take my word for it that when it’s time to move on it is best to do so and to not let yourself procrastinate, which could stunt your own growth.
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